In the first meeting, I cast a vision for multiplication. We’re going to grow closer to each other and to God. Confidentiality is also a value in this group. Things like: In this group we’re going to accept each other where we’re at. In that first meeting, you definitely want to share the purpose of the group and your vision for its future. Tell us a bit of your background, maybe family, maybe job, maybe spiritually.”) 12.
(“Why don’t we each take 2-3 minutes to tell a little about ourselves so we know who we’re in group with. You might just have each person share a (short version) of their story. For the first meeting, keep the study fairly short and light, if you do a study at all.
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(So, for instance, if we’re looking at a Bible passage about marriage, I might ask, “Who is your favorite all-time TV family, and why?”) 11. For the icebreaker question, I usually try to think of one that connects with and leads into the topic we’ll be studying that night. Creating a fun, open environment where we’re interacting and laughing together will pay big dividends later in helping people to feel connected to and able to open up to each other. I often start my group meetings with a quick icebreaker game AND an icebreaker question.ĭoing both may take up ten of our ninety minutes, but I think it’s worth it. Start with something easy to answer question like, “What’s your hometown and your favorite thing about it?” or “What’s your favorite restaurant?” or “Who is the most famous person you’ve ever met, or almost met?” An icebreaker game would be something like “I Never” (sometimes also called, “Never Have I”). Most people will be nervous to talk in group, and getting everyone to say something early on will make it much easier for them to say more later. 9. Once you’re ready to begin, start with a good icebreaker question or game. Food makes people feel comfortable and promotes interaction and conversation. You don’t have to make the food fancy, but you do need to have food. You may want to consider using name tags for the first meeting, especially if your group is fairly large 8. Have food and a variety of beverage options. Let them know that in the future they can come right in. 6. Greet people at the door with a big smile. 5. Before people show up, have your couch/chairs set up in a circle and ready to go. Make sure to turn the music off once you’re ready to begin your meeting. 4. Before people show up, turn on some background music.Ĭoming into a house with music playing is more inviting.
Making it bright will create a warm environment. Here’s my address (include the address where you will meet). Here’s my phone number in case you have any questions or won’t be able to make it (include phone number).” 3. Before people show up, turn on every light on the floor of the house where they’ll be entering and your group will be meeting. You don’t have to bring anything other than a bible. “Our group starts this week. We’re meeting this Wednesday at 7:00pm at my house. Send an email clearly letting everyone know the details. Confirm the details with your potential attendees, even if they already know. Tips leading up to your group’s first meeting: 1. Pray!Ī successful group will be a God thing, so pray that God blesses your leadership and helps your group to be everything He has in mind. I thought I might help you by sharing some of what I’ve learned. I’ve led a group most of the thousand weeks since, and I’ve picked up a lot of ideas and lessons on effective small group leadership. I wanted my group to be great, but knew very little about successfully leading a group. I was psyched, passionate, and petrified. I led my first small group twenty-two years ago as an intern at Southeast Christian Church in Louisville, Kentucky. Or it could be that you’ve led a group but feel like you could be more effective. Perhaps the idea of leading bible studies for small groups sounds exciting but also intimidating. Small group bible studies are powerful vehicles for catalyzing life change and spiritual growth. Leading a small group study is an amazing way to make a difference with your life.
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